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Mx Mayhem Mai (they/them) is a nonbinary trans pro-dom and kink educator in San Francisco. With 13 years of experience as a “heavy switch,” they teach from all six perspectives of the slash (D/s, top/bottom, sadist/masochist) and specialize in predicament play, ambidextrous impact topping, and sensual sadism. Mayhem developed their two-handed impact style due to bilateral nerve failure, now attracting those seeking a precise and engaging approach that accommodates chronic pain and nerve damage. As a service top, they see teaching and domination as acts of service, sharing skills to support the kink community. Emotional intelligence shapes Mayhem’s belief that kink is for everyone and guides their commitment to helping others enhance their experiences. Learn more at MxMayhemMai.com.
Two is better than one: Mayhem is known for their hypnotic dual wielding, ambidextrous impact style using a wide variety of impact toys. In this class they teach how to throw double floggers, canes, paddles, and more! Learn how pattern recognition, process automation, and sensory feedback enable anyone to play double handed.
Note: Dual wielding is not the same as Florentine flogging. This class will not focus on Florentine flogging.
Prerequisites: Knowledge of red, yellow, and green impact zones on the human body. Ability to throw an impact toy one handed, plus ability to practice throwing a pair of toys with both hands.
Materials needed: Any matched pair of toys, like two floggers, two canes, or two paddles. No toys? Bring your hands and gloves!
How do we kink out without throwing our backs out? Impact topping is a contact sport! Mitigate your potential for repetitive stress injury in this class. Mayhem will share tips to improve body mechanics while throwing different impact play tools: floggers, canes, paddles, and bare hands. You will leave this class with better knowledge on how to impact top more sustainably.