Mxster Mita

They / Them

Mxster Mita (they/them)—or simply Mita—is a multi-ethnic, non-binary Leather Fairy whose BDSM practice is inseparable from spirituality, ritual, and embodied transformation. Their journey began in the 1990s in piercing shops and body modification spaces, but expanded into a lifelong search for ritual, meaning, and the sacred mechanics of sensation, surrender, and power.

Over the past decades, Mita has developed ritual practices that blend body modification, S/M, breath, and energy work into intentional containers for queer becoming. They are Head of House Anchor, a Leather family dedicated to mutual growth, mentorship, and service, and a co-producer of Ritual Steel, a ritual piercing and ecstatic education experience.

Mita’s teaching centers how scenes land in the body—not as spectacle, but as somatic truth. Their work explores altered states, nervous system impact, ritual containment, consent, and the ethics of power, offering facilitators frameworks to move beyond performance into grounded, accountable ritual leadership.

Mita volunteers extensively to cultivate safer, spiritually rich BDSM spaces and believes ritual is infrastructure for intimacy, survival, and becoming.

This class introduces the applied skill of throwing (placing) hooks within piercing and hook play, designed for participants who already have foundational knowledge of play piercing, anatomy basics, and scene dynamics. The focus is on translating that knowledge into deliberate, new technique.
Instruction covers body positioning, angle and depth awareness, tissue response, pacing, and communication during placement. Instructor-led demonstrations will show how to adapt technique to different bodies and contexts, how to recognize when placement should pause or stop, and how to transition smoothly from hook placement into scene. Emphasis is placed on precision, safety, and energetic placement rather than speed or force.
This is an applied skill-development class with demonstration and structured explanation. While participant practice may be limited or observational depending on event constraints, attendees are expected to arrive with prerequisite experience and readiness to engage with technical material.

What it’s about:

This class is about the applied physical skill of throwing (placing) hooks in piercing and hook play.

Core focus:

  • Applied hook-placement technique
  • Body awareness, tool handling, and control
  • Safety, pacing, and real-time decision-making

In one line:
An applied introduction to the physical skill of throwing hooks with precision, judgment, and care.

This class is for those who are done playing gently.
Blood, Breath, and Belonging explores piercing scenes and kink rituals as deliberate undoing—where scenes are designed to strip away control, certainty, and composure in ways that are chosen, negotiated, and held. This is about building ritual containers capable of holding dread, resistance, surrender, and what remains afterward.
The focus is not spectacle or endurance, but responsibility: knowing why you are taking someone to the edge, how you are holding them there, and what care is required once the scene ends.

What it’s about:
Piercing scenes and kink rituals as intentional undoing.

  • Core focus:
  • Working with dread, resistance, and collapse
  • Ritual containers for extreme intensity
  • Responsibility for aftermath and integration

In one line
How to design piercing and kink rituals that undo people—and still hold them.