Event Rules & FAQ

  1. Accessibility
    • Venue is wheelchair accessible. Inside bathroom is ADA accessible.
    • Service Animals are welcome in accordance with ADA guidelines 
  2.  Tolerance
    • Racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, Islamophobia, fat shaming, body shaming, etc. will NOT be tolerated. 
    • The event Producers aim to lift the voices of those who are women, womxn, femmes, survivors, black, People of Color, queer, trans, and disabled. 
  1. Consent
    • All participants are expected to abide by the guidelines set forth in order to foster and maintain an environment that is safe for all. It is imperative that everyone in attendance commit themselves to these guidelines in order to keep the open edge play that many participants typically engage in.
    • For clarification, there are different types of Consent Violations such as:
      • Consent Accidents — These can occur because of error, miscommunication, misunderstanding, or not having all the information
      • Consent Violations — When someone knowingly and willfully chooses to ignore or cross someone’s limits and boundaries
    • We categorically endorse only Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) at our event and in our community. We denounce unwanted advances, undesired contact, and predatory behavior of any kind. In addition, we espouse the values of Radical Self Care and Vocal Self Advocacy.
    • All play MUST be consensual. Period. Consent violations will NOT be tolerated. The flagrant disregard for boundaries that have been previously and mutually agreed upon by parties, may include expulsion from the event if deemed necessary as a solution to the incident. CLEARLY ARTICULATE AND NEGOTIATE ALL OF YOUR WISHES, LIMITS, AND BOUNDARIES–EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU PLAY, WITH EVERYONE WHO IS INVOLVED IN THE SCENE. 
    • Safe-words. USE THEM. RESPECT THEM. The community safe-words to be used for the party are:
      • Green – All is Well
      • Yellow – Caution, back up, and check in
      • Red – Stop now, the scene is OVER! No re-negotiating the scene
  2. Will there be sex at this party?
    • There is often sex as well as many other types of play occurring.  So please be aware that you may see a variety of genitalia and EXTREME play.  If you see something that triggers you, please practice RADICAL SELF CARE and remove yourself from the room or seek support/assistance.  Remember that your experience is valid, but so is theirs.  Feel free to come to the Hosts if you need to talk! 
  3. What should I bring?
    • Please bring with you any items and supplies you’ll need to help you enjoy the evening better such as toys, pee pads (for any bodily fluids), condoms, lubricant, etc.
    • We supply large dungeon equipment and cleaning supplies. 
    • Snacks/Soft Drinks/Water are also provided. We recommend eating dinner before attending this event. 
  4. The following are prohibited at this event:
    • Whips longer than five feet except in designated areas.
    • Scat and piss play
    • Guns, firearms or explosives (real or simulated).
    • Concealed weapons of any kind.
    • Play in the bathroom
    • Nudity/play in the kitchen area
  1. Refunds
    • Tickets are non-refundable 
    • You may transfer your ticket to another person at any time up to 5:00 PM the day before the party.
  2. Event Rules
    • You must be at least 21 years old to attend this event. 
    • This is an alcohol/drug-free event. Any indication of impairment and you will be asked to leave with no refund.
    • This is a private party. You must register, pre-pay and be on the will-call list with your legal name to attend. 
    • Legal Name is required as you are signing legal forms but will only be seen by the door person who is Staff and the Hosts.  We will never say your legal name out loud or share your information with anyone.  
    • NOTE: You must show your government issued picture ID at the door that matches the legal name you purchased your ticket with or you WILL be denied entry. There are no refunds for a forgotten ID.
  3. What is the dress code 
    • Leather, fetish, latex, military, black, etc. Come as you desire. Please be street legal and quiet outside of the Dungeon.
  4. Where is the event location?
    • It’s in Mission Bay in San Diego- Address will be given upon ticket purchase. 
    • About 4 days before the event, you will be sent an email with the address.
  5. Where can I stay?
    • There are many hotels in Hotel Circle or downtown San Diego which is about a 5-15-minute drive.
  6. I’m new to this stuff! Should I attend this event? 
    • Yes! This is a social event and play party. Attendees to this event may engage in BDSM play (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism). All activities are consensual and we work particularly hard to foster a safe space for people to come and explore their interests and desires in BDSM, Leather, kink and everything in between. 
    • All levels of play and experience welcome; you will encounter a full spectrum of players, from vanilla to extreme.