About Us

About Desire Unchained

DESIRE began in 2004 as Desire Leather Women Unleashed, a groundbreaking women-centered BDSM gathering in Palm Springs. It quickly became a cornerstone event, blending education, community, and unapologetic play. Over the years, DESIRE evolved under new leadership, carrying forward a legacy rooted in empowerment, skill-building, and connection. When it came to an end in 2024, it left a real gap, one the community felt immediately.


Desire Unchained: The Next Era

Desire Unchained is the continuation, and evolution, of the DESIRE legacy. Led by Sarge and Meg (S&M), weโ€™re not just preserving what DESIRE was, weโ€™re expanding what it can be.

At our core, weโ€™re about:

  • Education from world-class presenters
  • Exploration in intentional, consent-forward play spaces
  • Community centered on women and gender-diverse kinksters

This is Desire, unchained, reimagined; more inclusive, more expansive, and built for the future.


Two Ways to Experience DESIRE

๐ŸŒด The Big Event (Palm Springs)
Our flagship experience is a multi-day destination event each year in Palm Springs. Think immersive: workshops, presenters, private instruction, and large-scale outdoor play partiesโ€”all in one unforgettable weekend.

๐Ÿ—บ๏ธ Traveling Play Parties
Weโ€™ve taken the Desire energy on the road. Our traveling events bring curated, queer-centered play parties to cities across the countryโ€”more intimate, more frequent, and designed to keep the community connected year-round.


Why Come to Desire Unchained?

This isnโ€™t just a party. Itโ€™s where you:

  • Learn something new
  • Try something youโ€™ve always dreamed about
  • Find your people
  • Step fully into your power

If youโ€™ve been looking for a space thatโ€™s intentional, electric, and built for unchaining your wildest desires, you just found it.